They are big. They are small. They are pink. They are brown. They are lopsided. They are straight…
Vaginas are very different! No two vaginas are identical, and to think something is “wrong” with yours is crazy!
You see, the media puts this idea into women’s heads that your vagina has to look like ____, smell like ____, and work like ____. As young girls, in sex ed (if we even have sex ed!), we aren’t taught about vaginas and how they look. We are just taught what they do.
Now, I use myself as an example a lot. One of my labia minora is significantly larger than the other. I used to be freaked out, and I wouldn’t actually let my boyfriend put his hand in my pants. Of course, I started reading more about it and found out that lots of other women were in the same situation.
Now, if you think your vagina looks abnormal, you are most likely wrong. And if you think your sexual partner won’t want to be with you; you are wrong! (Okay, if all they care about is how your vagina looks, then something is wrong with them, not you!) Most people aren’t going to care. Just as most women don’t care what a man’s penis is shaped like (penises come in all shapes and sizes too).
It shouldn’t affect sex, and you are the only one who has a problem with it. You don’t need vagina plastic surgery, and you don’t need to get laser hair removal to be smooth. You just need to be you and love your vagina (vajayjay, pussy… whatever you call it!).