04:18? Bwahaha.

(Seriously, though. Dental dams are important. Use ‘em!)

Anonymous said: Vocab question. If Genderqueer (or Gender/Sex diverse) means the idea that gender and sex are on a continuum or spectrum and are diverse instead of being binary, is there a word for the idea that gender, sex AND sexuality are all non-binary? Or is it just Gender/Sex/Sexuality diverse?

[Disclaimer: I don’t identify as genderqueer, so please feel free to correct me and send me your own ideas about what genderqueer means to ya’ll.]

Usually, ‘genderqueer’ is used as a term that describes a person’s gender identity or something relating to a person’s identity. A person who identifies as genderqueer would most likely describe their gender identity as being non-binary, non-heteronormative or gender-variant. A genderqueer person may feel neither (or both) ‘female’ (n)or ‘male’, and may also identify as trans*, two-spirit, gender-fluid, pan-gender, agender (or other). A genderqueer person may present as androgynous, masculine/butch, feminine/femme, both, all, other, or a combination of these.

Since gender identity is more fluidly defined by a genderqueer person, they might use gender neutral pronouns (e.g. ze, they, hir) and/or gendered (e.g. he, she) pronouns when referring to themselves. 

I think that the word that you’re looking for (to describe the fluidity of gender/sex/sexuality, right?) is probably ‘non-binary’.

Followers, I’ll leave this up to you. What do you think?

-k

genderedintelligence:

Terrence Higgins Trust have produced free booklets addressing the sexual health and wellbeing needs of trans men and women. 
Direct links to PDF copies of the booklets can be found online here:
Trans Health Matters: Trans Women
Trans Health Matters: Trans Men
Or you can order up to 3 hard copies for free from Terrence Higgins Trust here.

genderedintelligence:

Terrence Higgins Trust have produced free booklets addressing the sexual health and wellbeing needs of trans men and women. 

Direct links to PDF copies of the booklets can be found online here:

Trans Health Matters: Trans Women

Trans Health Matters: Trans Men

Or you can order up to 3 hard copies for free from Terrence Higgins Trust here.

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Anonymous said: i'm sorry this is just me but for someone who doesn't follow all of the non-gender terms this blog is super confusing. i think there is a point to where you/your followers are getting too nit-picky. like the boobs ask you just got. and i've seen others also. people are wayyyyy too sensitive.

Okay, maybe I’ll just type one-handed…ouchie…

Yes, being nit-picky about language can be confusing and annoying, especially for someone who’s unfamiliar with such terms.

However, we’ve made it clear that this blog is meant to be a safe space for everyone of all genders, orientations, gender expressions and gender identities. In order to do that, we have to use language that acknowledges and respects and validates people of non-heteronormative genders/gender expressions. (We’re trying to be more like Sweden, maybe.)

You see, it’s more than playing nice or trying not to offend people or covering our asses or (groan) being PC.

It’s a chance for us, in our own small way, to dismantle a system of oppression that hurts people for being true to themselves and for refusing to stuff themselves into someone else’s narrow heteronormative/cissexist/anti-queer definition of what is ‘acceptable’ when it comes to figuring out gender and sexuality.

Please excuse our mess as we blunder through gender-neutral pronoun usage and the like. (…and grammar. I should sleep, maybe.) This is something that we’re constantly working on, and we won’t be compromising about this as long we’re running IJP.

If we’re wrong, keep correcting us and pointing us in the right direction if you want—or don’t if you don’t want to. You’re certainly not obligated to educate us admins if we’re not doing our jobs correctly.

(Please don’t yell at us, though…we have feelings?)

Here’s a super-short guide to some of the gender-neutral pronouns that you might see on this site [links to PDF]. (I’m considering adding this to the Resources page…what do you think?)


stay fresh, peeps.


(ya, I’ve always wanted to post that.)


~ k

YO YO YO, dear followers:

I’m about to start working on a queer health article for a super-duper awesome lovely queer website called Autostraddle. If you have any tips, tricks or resources that might help me out while writing my article, please send them my way!

In the meantime, stay tuned for my friend’s interview in Autostraddle. They created and currently co-moderate the Transgender Housing Network, a temporary housing resource for trans*, queer and gender non-conforming folks in need of safe places to stay. It’s a cool resource that’s worth a look and a follow—so check it out and spread the word!

In the meantime, keep those questions and submissions coming! Wheeeee!

-k 

I’m trying to compose a list of low-cost and free womyn & queer-friendly health clinics for ya’ll.

We’re guilty of constantly telling our American followers to hit up Planned Parenthood to help them locate a low-cost clinic near them, but that’s gotta be a little bit inconvenient for, like, everyone who isn’t American, right?

K is from California and M is from Virginia, but we’d really appreciate submissions of locations from around the world so we can make a more comprehensive list for you all! Help us out by sending us your submissions. We’ll keep a running tab of things on our 'Sites We Like' page.

Please be as detailed as possible in your submissions. We’d really appreciate details about how the facility is run, how patients can pay for services (sliding-scale? completely free?), whether or not you need insurance, the locations of facilities, any websites, if it’s a mobile clinic or a permanent facility, outstanding healthcare workers you’ve seen, etc.

Thank you all for your help. We’re really excited about this!

-K 
 
P.S. We’re also interested in finding people who are willing to translate/proofread articles and posts into other languages. Contact us if you’re interested!

crashpadseries:

How sweet!

pridekent:

Women are Women

Regardless of Sex

and Men are Men

in the Same Respects

You can be Both

or a Mix of the Two

or you can be Neither

if that’s what Suits You

but People are People

Whatever Their Parts

because what Really Matters

is Inside of our Hearts

source

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genderinfinite:

APIQWTC 2012 Scholarship - Feb 12, 2012
AWARD OVERVIEW


APIQWTC (Asian Pacific Islander Queer Women and Transgender Community) is a non-profit consortium of more than fifteen organizations in the  San Francisco Bay Area providing support and community for nearly 500 queer Asian and Pacific Islander individuals. The APIQWTC scholarship  supports queer API women and transgender people in their pursuit of technical/professional training or higher education. The scholarship hopes to recognize those who are active in the community and encourage  future leaders. APIQWTC will be awarding scholarships of $500 to two  Asian/Pacific Islander lesbian, bisexual, or queer women or  transgender individuals pursuing technical/professional training or an undergraduate/graduate degree.AWARD CRITERIAHigh school seniors pursuing further education or training in summer  2011 or fall 2011 are also eligible to apply. Applicants should  demonstrate academic commitment as well as community involvement.APPLICANT REQUIREMENTS
Please submit:
A cover letter
A resume or c.v.
A two-page double-spaced personal statement.
The personal statement should address community involvement and future goals. How has your cultural heritage, sexual orientation, and/or  gender identity influenced your life and any activities in which you  have been involved? Discuss any relevant experiences up to the present  and how you see yourself involved in the community in the future,  either through your career or otherwise.
An official transcript
At least one but no more than two letters of recommendation.
Letter(s) of reference should come from an instructor, employer,  academic counselor, coach, community leader, or any other individual  not related to you who is familiar with your personal, academic, or  leadership qualities.Please submit statements and resumes/c.v.’s electronically no later than 7pm February 12, 2011. Letters and transcripts must be postmarked by February 12, 2011.Send statement and resume/CV as electronic attachments to: sueyoshi@sfsu.eduSend letter(s) and transcripts to:Amy Sueyoshi, Associate ProfessorCollege of Ethnic Studies/San Francisco State University1600 Holloway Avenue, San Francisco, CA 94132Feel free to direct any questions to Amy Sueyoshi at sueyoshi@sfsu.eduThe selection committee reserves the right to not award the scholarships if an appropriate applicant can not be identified.

genderinfinite:

APIQWTC 2012 Scholarship - Feb 12, 2012

AWARD OVERVIEW

APIQWTC (Asian Pacific Islander Queer Women and Transgender Community) is a non-profit consortium of more than fifteen organizations in the  San Francisco Bay Area providing support and community for nearly 500 queer Asian and Pacific Islander individuals. The APIQWTC scholarship  supports queer API women and transgender people in their pursuit of technical/professional training or higher education. The scholarship hopes to recognize those who are active in the community and encourage  future leaders. APIQWTC will be awarding scholarships of $500 to two  Asian/Pacific Islander lesbian, bisexual, or queer women or  transgender individuals pursuing technical/professional training or an undergraduate/graduate degree.

AWARD CRITERIA
High school seniors pursuing further education or training in summer  2011 or fall 2011 are also eligible to apply. Applicants should  demonstrate academic commitment as well as community involvement.

APPLICANT REQUIREMENTS

Please submit:

  • A cover letter
  • A resume or c.v.
  • A two-page double-spaced personal statement.

The personal statement should address community involvement and future goals. How has your cultural heritage, sexual orientation, and/or  gender identity influenced your life and any activities in which you  have been involved? Discuss any relevant experiences up to the present  and how you see yourself involved in the community in the future,  either through your career or otherwise.

  • An official transcript
  • At least one but no more than two letters of recommendation.

Letter(s) of reference should come from an instructor, employer,  academic counselor, coach, community leader, or any other individual  not related to you who is familiar with your personal, academic, or  leadership qualities.

Please submit statements and resumes/c.v.’s electronically no later than 7pm February 12, 2011. Letters and transcripts must be postmarked by February 12, 2011.

Send statement and resume/CV as electronic attachments to: sueyoshi@sfsu.edu

Send letter(s) and transcripts to:
Amy Sueyoshi, Associate Professor
College of Ethnic Studies/San Francisco State University
1600 Holloway Avenue, San Francisco, CA 94132

Feel free to direct any questions to Amy Sueyoshi at sueyoshi@sfsu.edu

The selection committee reserves the right to not award the scholarships if an appropriate applicant can not be identified.

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